For years, my self-esteem was in the toilet. Until 2011, when I met a man who became my boyfriend and #1 support. He showed me that I’m not a shitty person, an ugly person, or a worthless person. He showed me that I am beautiful, attractive, and worthy of love. Now, we are no longer together (which btw is a good thing) but I carry with me the message he sent of having self-esteem and seeing my own self-worth. When we broke up, I was able to continue to see my inner beauty and strength, and I love myself now. In the past, validation from him felt great, but I don’t need it anymore. If I believe that I’m attractive, then I’m attractive. I don’t need other people’s approval, and I don’t need anyone to validate me.
Skye83 